Single parents are often overwhelmed with the number of thoughts that flood their minds on what is in store for them. We would like to publish a small piece of information collated by Dr. Ali Khwaja for a session he gave for The Phoenix Family members. We believe this will provide some clarity in the […]

I was dead a few moments ago, Fired by flames that fumed by ego. I am stripped of all my illness, And spared of my earthly heaviness. Lost senses have made me feel, The light that is now so real. I am getting drawn to a zone, Every emotion feels like home. The journey is […]

2017 — a year that changed my life. Things that I thought would last forever came to an end this year. My discoveries of being betrayed hurt every bone of my body till I became numb. I was filled with anger and rage. Wanted to destroy them all. My family & close friends stood by […]

This is the audio recording of the session ‘The Phoenix Family’ (www.thephoenixfamily.in) organized in Bangalore with Dr. Ali Khwaja, chairman of Banjara Academy (www.banjaraacademy.org) on September 3rd, 2017. Sub topics discussed are: Facts and benefits of emotional honesty https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wbvlZ…​ Does emotional honesty go against positive thinking? The more I hate some one, do I not […]

Last week I was watching my regular reality TV show when I started feeling a change in my mood. I was beginning to relate one of the characters on TV with my late wife. Then out of nowhere a flood of emotions, mostly sadness and anger, ensued. This is not the first time that I […]

Pre-court tension: 8 am What do you wear when you go to court? I wondered standing in front of the mirror. Two years of separation and the @#$%% I married was about to appear in court for the first hearing of my divorce case. He had received summons! The initial euphoria of having thus saved […]

Less than six months into my marriage I found myself at a lawyer’s office asking about options to end the marriage. If I said it was the hardest thing I have ever done it wouldn’t be true. There was a voice inside that prodded me on. A voice that had been subdued for a long […]

This is the audio recording of the session ‘The Phoenix Family’ (www.thephoenixfamily.in) organized in Bangalore with Dr. Ali Khwaja, chairman of Banjara Academy (www.banjaraacademy.org) on March 4, 2017. Sub topics discussed are: Grieving process stages after Spouse death (00 min 52 sec) https://youtu.be/c4Nf1Vq2Qns?t=52s​ Death of relationship (09 min 32 sec) https://youtu.be/c4Nf1Vq2Qns?t=9m32s​ Question raised by children […]

This year started off with a bang. In January 2016, I broke both my ankle bones. And that wasn’t even the worst part of the damned year. Physical pain I came to learn, bad as it may seem, doesn’t hold a candle to the emotional pain of a fractured marriage. My chronically ill marriage was […]